When meeting new teachers for the first time, I always find it quite challenging. To me they’re complete strangers; they know nothing about me; they haven’t been there since day one and overall it’s overwhelming.
To avoid all that stress, I have now written an information leaflet which I give to someone prior to any teaching. When the idea was first suggested. I thought it sounded ridiculous but after sometime I came around.
It has actually been quite successful for me and my teachers and has taken the edge of any new encounter. I am happy that I’ve created one.
This is an idea of what I included:
- Don’t talk about exams.
- Don’t talk about GCSES.
- Don’t speak to fast.
- Don’t use ‘figures of speech’.
- Don’t switch topics quickly.
- Don’t ask me about homeschool.
- Don’t shout at me.
- Don’t make sudden changes to the schedule.
- Don’t question if I have ADHD or ASD.
- Don’t give me to much information to process.
- Don’t tell me ‘it’s okay’ in a messy situation ( it wont help).
- Don’t be disorganised.
- Don’t make unexpected actions.
All these things that I’ve written down are things that make me feel uncomfortable there are a load more.
That’s why the information leaflet has been really important to me. I’ve learned that when I meet potential new teachers I put them ‘on probation’ from the first time I meet them, without them realising it. By providing the leaflet, I am helping them get to know me and giving them more of a chance. It’s also helping me as I find it difficult being around new people and it takes me time to get used to them.
In the end it all works out okay, like it usually does.